Fated to care (45) He told everyone in the office he had a crush on me five years ago , I really don't know how true was that. He glanced at me shyly and smiled. A very charming man with a lovely personality, May I pour you some cold water? he offered nervously. We've been church members for ages, we grew up knowing each other, but just as friends, nothing more. He never asked me out and I never did also.